What makes a person sexy?

So....what does make a person sexy? Is it the clothes they wear (or don't wear, perhaps) or the way they style their hair (assuming they have hair, lol) or is it more than just the look?

I suspect it is a combination of things, but the major component to being SEXY is, in my opinion anyway, ATTITUDE. Combine attitude and confidence, and you've got sexy down pat!

Having realised that sexy is an attitude and not an action, has helped me to also realise that sexy doesn't necessarily mean slutty. One does not need to be naked or dressed in revealing clothes in order to be seen as sexy. In truth, covered from neck to knee can be more sexy than naked is, provided you are wearing the right attitude, and wearing it with confidence.

I'm sure we can all think of someone we believe is sexy, without having to think too hard. The first sexy guy that comes to mind for me is Michael Hutchence (INXS frontman, sadly no longer with us). From the first time I laid eyes on him, way back in my teens, before he became famous, I felt he positively oozed sexiness. He wasn't necessarily the most handsome man on earth, with his greasy hair and pock-marked skin, but my god! He was sooooo sexy that I just went all gooey inside whenever I saw him. Now none of this had anything to do with him being famous; like I said, I thought he was hot before he was famous. He just had IT.

See what I mean? He's not overly handsome, or physically built like Mr Universe (in fact, he's quite thin), yet he totally oozes sexy!

I rest my case! lol Actually, he is just one of many people that can take the title of "sexy". Sexy people come in all shapes and sizes, and from all walks of life. One doesn't have to be famous, or beautiful, thin or have long flowing hair, because none of those things are relevant when it comes to being sexy. The only thing you need is attitude and confidence, and the only way to get that, is to be comfortable in your own skin and with who you are - not what you look like. (I hope you read my first blog, as it is all about Self-image).

Truly, everyone has the ability to be sexy, without having to be cheap or slutty. Male or female, makes no difference. If you want to be sexy, then love who you are and what you are made of, and wear yourself proudly. The rest will follow on automatically.

Oh, and by the way.......you can be sexy without having to act on it, so just enjoy the attention it brings and bring sexy back for everyone!

Catch ya next time!
Kazz